tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-158035502011-12-29T06:40:19.238-05:00Opening the discussion on How To Date in 2005Dating 101http://www.blogger.com/profile/02745340541893497694noreply@blogger.comBlogger611100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15803550.post-1133972509876675582005-12-07T11:21:00.000-05:002005-12-07T11:21:49.893-05:00

I went on this date with a really cool guy last Friday, and he hasn’t called me since. I’m usually not wrong about these things, I can tell when someone is interested in me, or at least enough to call me and see if I want to go on another date. (It’s after that, that I usually get messed up.) We stayed out talking till 2am in the morning. The conversation was really interesting, not like the

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I have to say this is pretty fucked up. Makes sense why I've been having so much trouble with the whole online dating thing.By Paul Chavez, Associated Press WriterLawsuits Accuse Online Dating Sites of Engaging in Deceptive PracticesLOS ANGELES (AP) -- After looking for love on the Internet and failing to find it, frustrated lonely hearts are heading to court, accusing online dating sites of

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I came across a book that basically said the divorce rate is high because woman do too much around the home, and the job description of a wife needs to be rewritten. I never gave much thought to housework until I started living on my own. I have a tiny studio, and I hate cleaning it. I hate washing the floors, I hate doing dishes, the place always look like a mess even though I only spend a

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I think people date because they don’t want to be single. Being part of a couple is safe, there is always someone to have dinner with and life is predictable. You don’t have to go on blind dates, wait for phone calls or hang your heart on your sleeve whenever you go out. So is the grass really greener on the other side? If you are single you get to:1.Do whatever you want, whenever you want.2.

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I’m not a fan of Maureen Dowd, but I think she really hit the nail on the head when she wrote “The Modern Woman”, a recent article in the NY Times.I love the section that she wrote about woman and courtship. It seems that woman now have to do more work to get a man. It’s not enough that we are more educated and more independent, now we also have to do more of the work in hunting for a guy.

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I’m not sure how you fill up an entire book about this topic, like with He’s Just Not That into You, but here are the signs that I look for when someone is just not that into me.He doesn’t call more than once a week.You don’t see him for more than once a week, even though you have been dating for over 2 months.He never makes plans. I have to decide what we should do.All he wants is sex.He calls

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I grew up watching way too much TV, 90210, Save by the Bell, all the crappy teen dramas. No wonder I grew up with the assumption that I was supposed to be dating all the time. All the TV shows were just one big incest pool, where the ugly guy/girl somehow managed to get the hottest person at their high school. Sure, I use to day dream about stuff like that. No one at my high school was all

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I have come to the conclusion that you should never ask a single person to hook you up with someone. If they honor your request it’s probably shady matchmaking, and you’ll wonder if your friend is out to make you miserable. If you want friends to set you up with someone, ask someone that is currently part of a couple. If they are happy, they will want you to be happy too. If not they’ll want

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I was sitting with a few of my friends last night, and someone asked the question if we knew anyone in a really good relationship. A relationship that we could actually envy?It’s horrible but not one of us could really say that we did. Most of the people we know are in poor, or just plain bad relationship. There are the handfuls that are doing okay, some that seem happy, and others that never

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It’s pretty easy to know where people come from, if they act or dress a certain way, they must be from Brooklyn, or the Bronx, or New Jersey. Stereotypes do exist.These days I think people are learning their personalities not from where they live, but from what they watch on TV. I’ve meet enough gay men that have said ‘woman love me because I’m gay’, that I’m starting to see a pattern. I think

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I’m not really sure why people consider bars a good place to meet people. It’s extremely loud and you can’t hear anything. The evening usually starts off with people being very standoffish because they aren’t drunk enough, and by late night people are so drunk they aren’t sure if they are flirting with someone of the opposite sex. The pitch black rooms don’t help either.I’ve been intrigued by

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I have always wondered when I will reach the point where I have completely run through an internet dating website. There are only so many guys interested in me, and only so many whom I am interested in. I think I run through a personal site in about 1 month. After that everything just goes on auto bill to my credit card because I’m too lazy to cancel. When I first signed up to an online

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Yup it really does exist. Here’s the website to find a local number:http://www.rejectionhotline.com/I think it’s easier to not give out your number or wrong number than give up the rejection hotline number, but if the guy is a real ass you should definitely do it. I only know one person that gave this number out, I don’t know anyone that has received it though.

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I had the luxury of attending another wedding on Saturday. What a terrible day to get married, it must have rained 3 inches in an hour. I was drenched by the time I got home. This was the first Chinese wedding banquet I have ever attended and I learned a lot from it. For example, in the Chinese culture the groom or the groom’s family is suppose to pay for the entire cost of the wedding, and

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I’ve been on several more bad dates and I feel like I’ve lost the initiative. More and more I am just waiting for the night to end. I feel like I’ve had a lifetime of conversations about jobs, aspirations and childhood memories. It’s not that the guys I’ve been out have been boring, but it seems that I’m not so sure of what I’m looking for anymore. I’m 26 years old now and while many still

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I went on a horrible date last night. I’m not sure why I even went, I think I was feeling lonely. I meet a guy from Match.com who didn’t post up his picture. I normally ask for a picture but we were talking for a few days, and he suddenly asked me to have drinks with him last night, and I just never got around to getting a picture from him.He was FAT and UGLY! I’m sure he’s over 300lbs. I

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I love receiving flowers, doesn’t matter if it’s from friends or someone I am romantically interested in. I think it’s a wonderful gift all around. Only problem is if I get flowers on a date, I have to carry it around all night long. So unless you are picking me up, and I can put the flowers in a vase before I leave my apartment, I think flowers should be delivered. It annoys me when guys say

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I could never date a guy shorter than me. I have no idea why I feel this way, probably because my mom tells me not to date men shorter than me. Since I’m 5’4 I haven’t really had too much trouble finding men taller than me. When I run searches on match.com, I still search for guys that are at least 5’6 and up. I feel sorry for short men, you could be the cutest guy in the world, but you are

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It is a common phenomenon that in the winter couples stay together, because are bunkering down for the winter, and in the spring they split up to find a new boyfriend or girlfriend. Sounds a little animal like to me, but there seems to be a lot of proof for this theory. There definitely is more dating going on in the summer months in NYC. I haven’t really been in the mood lately to date. I

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I have never read Middlesex, so I’m probably going to butcher it a bit, so correct me if I’m wrong. I was told that in the story, there is a man that is dating an Asian woman. He shortly there afterwards announces that he is gay. I also know of one guy that dated an Asian girl for several months. After they broke up, he came out of the closet. I have heard it said that gay guys date Asian

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Vacations are sold in packages for two. Cooking for one person is so pointless you might as well get a slice of pizza. It’s actually cheaper. Hanging out with a couple means you are the third wheel. No one goes to a restaurant to eat by themselves People ask ‘how is your dating life going?’ You are the subject of lots of useless advice People think you are a pathetic especially if you are

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I have decided that the best way to interview is take 2 or 3 shots before showing up. This may sound unorthodox, but if you’re not drunk, the buzz just might help you nail down a job. You just need to find the right balance between getting rid of nervousness and drunkenness.I know someone that did this, and they told me that they came off confident, because he really didn’t care after taking 3

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The writer of the famous novel Waiting to Exhale filed for divorce from her husband of six years three months ago. I just heard about this recently, and honestly I laughed. The book is about how she and her husband, half her age, fell in love. Her story was adapted into the movie How Stella Got Her Groove Back, the film was about a single mother on vacation in Jamaica, who falls in love with

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Let’s start by saying that just about everyone single is getting over someone. Some are getting over people they never even dated, other people are getting over girlfriends or boyfriends that dated for a few short months or a few years. Everyone gets over trauma at their own rate, but some people I know are getting over people from several years ago. I think they also fit into the overly

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I think everyone should be at a comfort level by the third date. So I think its okay to kiss anywhere between the second and third date. First date is okay, but I think it’s somewhat awkward if you have just met this person. The best time to kiss is at the end of the date, and I think the guy should initiate the kiss, though he shouldn’t be slobbering all over the girl. He should kiss her on

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I’m writing this, because a male friend of mine says it is too expensive to date. Here are some things everyone can do on a date if you are on a tight budget.•Off-off-Broadway shows can be watched for as little as $15 a ticket•Lectures at the Y - say you’re a student and they’ll sell you a ticket for $12.50 sometimes.•Dinner in the East Village, especially St. Marks place can be very inexpensive

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I read a study a while back that said if a girl grew up believing in fairy tales like sleeping beauty or Cinderella, and then she would be more likely to fall into an abusive relationship.Fairy tales teach girls that they just need to be beautiful and a prince will sweep them off their feet, and rescue them for a life of hardship. I know when I was young I loved these kinds of stories, they were

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I was having dinner with my friends tonight at a little Korean restaurant on 13th street and University. I noticed the couple sitting next to me had a lot of awkward pauses in their conservation. The girl said something like, “you’ve never been to San Gennaro festival?!?” (Look of shock on her face.) He says, “No, what is it?”Her response, “It only goes on once a year in Little Italy on Mott

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I think I dissed two of my close friends yesterday. One of them is dating a guy that wants to be her fuck buddy, and the other is dating a girl that isn’t really showing any interest in him. I told them both what I thought of their situation. I said, ‘they don’t like you’. Maybe that's too blunt?This has been going on for several weeks, and at first I encouraged them to date these people

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Someone explain to me the difference.I think love is finding two people happy enough to want to settle for each other. And having that, you can then settle down with each other into your united lives.Is that right? Then why are we all afraid of the word: SETTLING?Try Match.com Free For 3 Days!

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I work in a place where everyone is fighting for the most genius title. Everyone is trying to out do each other. They compete over who has the better address, who went to the better school, who has the better boyfriend or girlfriend. NYC is a super competitive place. It's hard to feel like you doing better than everyone else here. I'm not an ambitious person, so I don't expect to make a

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EHarmony.com is suppose to a relationship oriented site. At least that is how they sell themselves. I don’t really understand, are all the other dating sites just for sex? I signed up for eharmony.com last year, because the whole personality test thing seemed interesting. The test takes over 30 minutes, and towards the end I wasn’t even reading the questions anymore, because it seemed really

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So the guy that I went on a date with last Thursday contacted me today. He must be allergic to the phone too, because he instant messages me, and asks me if I would like to have dinner with him tomorrow. Call me old fashioned, but I would prefer it if you actually picked up the phone and called me instead of typing a one liner to me while I'm online. We are all becoming more informal, because

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It has come to my attention recently that attorneys at my current job are getting blow jobs from some of the women that work here. I’ve heard of at least 2 alleged incidences so far. Maybe they all are all trying to be like slick Willy. One girl definitely doesn’t try to hide that she has a thing for an attorney here. I don’t think he’s particularly good looking, but he is one of the few

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One of my ex-boyfriends use to check my email account. I didn't know that he was doing this. I gave him my email password to check something for me awhile ago, but he actually remembered the password and would continue to check my email every so often. He mentioned this a few months into our relationship, saying that he checked my email to see if I was cheating on him. WTF! I was not

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Funny forward my friend sent me:How To Shower Like a WomanTake off clothing and place it in sectioned laundry hamper according to lights and darks. Walk to bathroom wearing long dressing gown. If you see husband along the way, cover up any exposed areas.Look at your womanly physique in the mirror - make mental note to do moresit-ups/leg-lifts, etc.Get in the shower. Use face cloth, arm cloth, leg

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My date went okay. He was friendly and he looked like his photo. We met up for drinks and had dinner also. We had the generic conversation about our jobs and how crazy NYC is. The date lasted about three hours. I’m not really sure if we are going to see each other again. I don’t know if we there was enough attraction there. If he calls me I’ll think about whether or not I want to see him

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I didn't date as a teen, so I must be okayThe Case for Going Steady:Studies Say Teen Dating HabitsAffect Marriage SkillsSeptember 8, 2005; Page D1From The Wall Street JournalWhen their son was a teenager, Doug and Suzanne Schiffman worried he wasn't dating enough. Adolescence is a time to build relationship skills, the Chevy Chase, Md., couple believed -- but their son had just one long-term

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I’m meeting up for drinks with this guy I have been chatting with for about four weeks. It’s been tough for me to find time to meet him, because I was recently placed on a trial that has required some travel time to no mans land. It’s enough to make me want to start professionally drinking on the job. There’s a picture of him on Yahoo Personals, but it’s probably a bad idea for me to post it

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I openly tell my friends that I use online dating, and they look at me like I have reached a new level of desperateness. They think that you shouldn’t have to spend money to meet someone. I agree with them, online dating services should be free! My friends think that I shouldn’t have to advertise to meet someone either, but when I ask for an alternative, they dance around the subject.

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The online dating industry is like the dieting industry. They make money from the suffering and embarrassment of others. They give us a database of information like single people in our zip code, or recipes for low fat food, and let us fend for ourselves. Services like Just Lunch, charge $1500 for 6 lunch dates. Talk about robbery, and people actually pay for it. It won’t be long before the

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I need to buy a wedding present for my friend next month. I'm broke right now, so I'd really rather buy food or condoms then buy a wedding gift for people I haven't spoken to in more than 2 years. FYI, my current job pays me in beans. I don't understand why people spend so much money on their weddings. If they were having like a backyard wedding, I wouldn't feel bad for buying them a $30

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Another drunken dating questions, what to do when your friend likes the same person as you do. I watched this situation play out last night, when two of my male friends were deciding which one of them would get the chance to ask a girl they mutally liked out. They were both very gracious about it, saying no - you should go for it. No, no, you should go for it, she probably likes you more. Has

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One of my friends is currently going out with two guys. It’s only been two or three dates, but I don’t agree with what she is doing. She says its okay, because it’s the beginning and they are not exclusive. She knows it would irritate them both so she just doesn’t talk about it with them. I don’t understand this logic at all, if she found out they were doing that to her, she would drop them

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H says: If this date doesn't work out, I'm going to go neuter myself. I've decided that every single person in existence, or at least in NYC, has tried giving up on dating. It's like an addiction, you have to withdraw from it slowly. Then you go to rehab where you drink, and bitch and complain for weeks on end. Then you see someone you like, and you forget all about the rehab and the drinking

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This is my two cents on who should pay for dinner. I think men should pay on the first few dates if they really want to make a good impression. Cheapness is up there with fat, stupid and ugly. An extra $20 to pay for someone else's dinner is not going to kill you, and if you are that hard up, stay home and jerk off. If you want ass you need to work for it.Women should not expect their date to

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I can’t take it anymore. Why are 28 year old men living with their mommies? I have a coworker that I swear doesn’t know how to do his laundry. He’s 28 years old, and he’s probably never ironed his own shirt before. I’ve been doing my own laundry since I was 14! He doesn’t have any bills to pay, his mom cooks his dinners and irons his underwear. My coworker tells me he stays at home to take

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I heard that someone I know just got dumped by his girlfriend. She just finished college this year. They have been living together for a few months. Since they signed a lease they are going to continue living together.She probably broke up with him, because she just graduated from college. Many people split up right after they graduate trying to figure out what they want in life. Life is

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I have one suggestion to make to all the online dating sites, create a feedback rating system for users. There should be a way to leave feedback for people. If you were a horrible date, you shouldn’t be allowed to torture anyone else on their network.Try Match.com Free For 3 Days!

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Look just because you can send me a message at a click of a button, doesn’t mean you should. I just went through my emails from Yahoo Personals, one of the internet dating sites that I use consistently, and I keep getting contacted by the same old bald guy. WTF! I don’t write him back and he continues to send me the same boring message week after week. He must just be copying and pasting the

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This is going to sound really weird, but I think arranged marriages are good thing. I read an article a few months back about how people that have their marriages arranged last longer because they have more of a vested interest in the marriage. They cut the bullshit factor out, and decide who someone is going to marry based on a set of criteria. After they get married, they know they have to

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I’m worried about one of my friends. He tends to obsess over everyone he dates, but then again who doesn’t. He goes on one date, and he thinks about that person all day long. The only problem is, if she’s not interested in him, then he gets really, really sad. All this after one date.I’m getting the impression that the girl he is interested in currently doesn’t feel the same way. He waited

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I find it extremely ironic that finding someone we want to be with is incredibly important, but we actually don’t dedicate too much of our time doing it. I spend about 55-65 hours of the week working. I have a terrible job as a paralegal. I’m treated like dog shit, and I spend 12hrs of my waking day at work. On the bright side, while waiting for the attorney to give me more paperwork to copy,

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There probably isn’t a single worst experience then seeing the person you were obsessed over with another person. Suddenly you become desperate to leave the room, to wallow in your own agony. You feel violated! Your exs are supposed to become asexual hermits after you break up with them. What does this new person have that I don’t? My friend Aaron and I have been discussing whether or not

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I wonder how many hours I spend thinking about when a guy will call me. I go on one date that lasts no more than 4 hours, and I spend the next three days wondering when he is going to call me. I don’t care when my friends call me back. At most I get irritated if they don’t call me back right away - but when it’s a guy I’m interested in I literally spend 75% of my free time wondering when he’s

Dating 101http://www.blogger.com/profile/02745340541893497694noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15803550.post-1125082286233137092005-08-26T14:48:00.000-04:002005-08-26T14:55:05.236-04:00

If you are any of the following, please don't date! You haven't read a book in over 10 years (comic books don't count.) You are a hairy beast You have a princess complex You are consistently late by more than 20 minutes You are a serial killer You are a pedophile If you are an ass If you haven't been on a date in more than 5 years. If you are a 40 year old virgin!Yahoo! Personals

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I've been doing this Internet dating thing now for over 2 years. I admit it, it's primarily how I get the majority of my dates. I go on about 2 dates a month. Sometimes I get tired of it, and I drop it for a few months. I always end up back on the dating sites, because it's super easy. If I didn't use online dating, I would probably be dateless. Dateless in NYC, how ironic.I've tried Match,

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I went on an internet date awhile back, and it wasn't going well. He was dressed like he was 55 years old, but he was 26 years old. When the check came, I offered to split the bill, because I had no intention of ever seeing this guy again. I know this guy was probably pretty desparate by the looks of him, but the thought of going on another date with him was making me want to throw up. So I

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How often have we heard people we know talk about getting to the next level of a video game, or how they stayed up all night finishing a game. This is why so many people are now single. Instead of socializing, they are in front of their Tv or computers playing stupid video games! Masturbating to a play station is really sad. Go out and get real ass. Trying to get to the porn section of grand

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Men should ask women out. Yes, this is an old fashioned rule, but relationships work better this way. Make men work. Relationship never work well when the girl does all the asking.It's been this way for thousands of years, and suddenly in the last 30 years society has decided that guys are the ones with vaginas and now everything should be equal. It's not, and it never will be. Girls who ask

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There are too many clueless people out there and I'm here to educate them. Listen to me and I know you can get the person you want. I write this as a 26 year old, single female, in NYC who's just waiting to meet a guy with some balls. And not just stupid testosterone balls, but balls enough to treat a lady with some class, dignity and respect. Men (or shall I say "boys") these days have

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